HOW TO APPROACH SITUATIONS CAREFULLY

The first thing you need to do is to realize when you are in the wrong. As well as knowing when to apologize for a mistake or situation you have caused. Next is to have the ability to learn from a downfall or a mistake. As to not let that mistake happen a second time. Acknowledging when you are at fault is difficult for everyone. Although it is a key factor in taking responsibility for one’s actions.

As a result, responsibility can aid you in becoming self-aware and helping you develop personally and grow as a person. Being able to take responsibility for your actions will better prepare you for the consequences that may come thereafter.

These consequences can hurt those closest to you as well as damage the trust that has been formed so far. So when taking responsibility, the onus is on you to mend what has been broken and earn that trust again. The ability to take responsibility lends itself highly to the ability to see with perspective or empathy.  Allowing you to mend that which is broken.

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WHAT WILL COME FROM TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS

Through taking responsibility for one’s self, you open the door for self-awareness and therefore self-growth. Knowing when to pause is important. Knowing when to think about a situation before blindly acting through impulse is of the utmost importance in maintaining relationships.

As a result of any action you perform, there will be an equal and opposite reaction or consequence either good or bad. Through impulse action, without proper thought, or preparation comes anger, pain, and heartbreak.

Responsibility really comes in when times are tough. When you have to take accountability for something that has happened, which has lead to adverse effects on those around you.

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THE HARDEST PART OF OWNING UP TO YOUR ACTIONS

It’s easier taking responsibility for the good you do. More so, it takes maturity and strength to own up and take responsibility for your wrongdoings and mistakes. Being able to take responsibility for your actions and the consequences thereafter could be the make or break moment that occurs in your life. Either fixing or destroying relationships that you have nurtured.

All of the above, as well as the ability to say sorry for your actions, are the foundations of being the best version of yourself in regards to personal relationships as well as in society as a whole.

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58 thoughts on “RESPONSIBILITY- HOW TO CONTROL YOUR ACTIONS AND YOUR REACTIONS!

  1. This was very interesting Dane. I felt that these are some life situations I have encountered before and having read this , it’s paved a way going forward for me. Awesome stuff. Keep it up buddy.

          1. I completely agree with owning up to my mistakes…. however, it is the most difficult when it isn’t and I am made to scapegoat….. I used to stay quiet and just take the blame to avoid trouble…. and not that I am much older, I am standing up and saying that I no longer am a willing victim, those perpetrators would put up a fuss…. but they are slowly learning that I am not the pushover of the past…

          2. That’s great! Don’t ever let people take advantage of you. Always hold your ground and stand up for yourself.
            One of my mottos is “always back yourself, as sometimes you will be all you have”.

  2. Awesome, nice blog post topic and beautifully written. Self recognition can save you from many dis regularaties in your personal and professional life.
    Your internal site structure is nicely managed. Keep it up bro.

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